If you are looking for the best marriage books ever written, then look no further! Thousands of couples have read the books that you are going to discover today, resulting in their seriously dysfunctional marriages being forever changed for the better! There are hundreds and hundreds of testimonies on this website, in our books and at our forum: www.JoelandKathy.com/boards/
We are Joel and Kathy Davisson. We do not aim to simply help a marriage survive. That is no fun! We want marriages to end up being Outrageously Happy! The books are called: The Man of Her Dreams/The Woman of His! and Book 2: Livin’ it and Lovin’ it!
God spoke to Joel that before we were married. He said that He would touch many people through us as a married couple. During the first 10 years of our marriage, however, we lived a nightmare instead of a dream! Can you relate? During this time Joel was very hurtful towards me. We were always arguing, and things would decline to spiritual, verbal, and mental abuse. On top of everything, as most abusers do, he blamed ME for the problems! All I wanted was a great marriage and he manipulated everything to make me look like a problem!
Unbelievably, after I tried so hard to have a happy marriage, I received a letter from him informing me that he had been unfaithful and wanted a divorce! Writing two best selling marriage books was the last thing that we ever imagined we would end up doing!
When asked what made me stay with him throughout these years, I can only answer that it was because I clung to, and relied upon, the Word of God. In my heart, I knew that without a vision for our marriage, there was no way it could survive. Like most people, I had a dream about what married life could be like. Sadly that dream was replaced very early on with a very bad reality. I did everything I could to make the marriage work, and read many Christian books on marriage that taught me to submit. That did not work at all. It only extended my “hell on earth.” As a Christian, I did not believe in divorce. So I suffered. My suffering lasted way too long because of the LOUSY advice in those “submit and respect” and “Total Woman” type books. What these books failed to mention was that in order for a marriage to work, both partners need to submit to one another. My submission therefore only made things worse! We finally learned. Joel finally quit treating me abusively. He actually learned how to be a great husband and treat me like a princess. Oh, he had to change, completely, and it was hard for him, but now, both of us are happy. Happy wife, happy life! Now, I am living my dream marriage! – and so is he!
If you still believe in a dream marriage, you can live a dream marriage. Restoring our marriage took faith, work, and dedication, but I can honestly say that things are better now than I ever imagined. That first marriage book that God told us to write is helping couples all over the country. If you are ready to see a miracle happen in your marriage, order these books! They will change your life because they offer real help FROM real people and FOR real people.