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I am so lost and confused on what to do. Can you help us?

Good afternoon Joel and Kathy, I have been praying for God to put someone in my path that could help me and my husband as we are going through a divorce and today Angela Milliken walked into my office and told me she had met you and referred me to write to you. I pray…

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How they are going to make decisions when you have a disagreement…

Here is a series of questions from a husband who is asking his wife how they are going to make decisions when they have a disagreement. To be totally candid, this husband is not really looking for answers, in our opinion. For various reasons, we believe that his questions reflect a challenge to his wife…

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My problem is an unsaved wife

Dear Joel and Kathy. Our church gave out your books as Christmas presents… I’ve read it and am reading it again. My problem is an unsaved wife (I was backslid when we married twenty-four years ago , then came back to the Lord last year). . Don’t think that topic is addressed is in the…

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My problem is that my wife is very often cold and sometimes verbally abusive..

We received a letter today from Randy. Rand y and his wife Susan have had some serious problems over the years, not the least of which has been that they each committed adultery at least once. Randy has been trying to win his wifes heart back but Susan is very wounded from the years of…

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“I am the king of the castle, and the wife must submit”

The books arrived today – thanks for the prompt shipment. My wife and I are currently separated after 21 years of marriage. No adultery or any kind of sexual sin, and no abuse; just me not listening to her heart. She moved out this past weekend. I had always been taught (wrongly now, I see)…

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“Wondering”

Dear Joel and Kathy, What about the husband who is abusive to wife and kids? What about the husband with a criminal past that yet haunts him and the addiction that he still struggles with? What about the wife who no longer has passion for her husband? What can be done for them? “Wondering” Hi…

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Do your part and the Lord will do His!

Hi Joel and Kathy, I want to share with you a situation that has come up with us. Joel, in your DVD seminar you told the men that if they are loving their wife and doing what they need to be doing for her and she has a situation that she is not overcoming then…

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Going through a rough time.

Hey Joel and Kathy, here is an email that I had sent to Norm a few days ago. Thought it may help others to see what a woman may be feeling inside while she is opening up past hurts and feelings. We (me in particular) were going through a rough time. —– Original Message —–…

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This is a letter from Bess. Thanks Bess! This is GREAT!

I hope that it is OK for me to share an issue that had come up between me and my sweet hubby. Although my husband had been calling me gorgeous, beautiful, luscious, pretty, etc., it fell on deaf ears. He was often frustrated and puzzled at my rejection of his compliments. I shared with him…

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Healing Emotions

Hi Kathy, This was a great message and very nice to hear from you. (Referring to the newsletter: “It is my turn now” from Kathy) I am so hoping that I too will get past the pain of remembering and truly move on. My husband and I are both very hopeful. Things are looking good….

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