You Can Do it !


If your marriage has been ravaged by adultery, porn, other marital problems, divorce, emotional abuse, mental abuse or verbal abuse, then allow Joel and Kathy Davisson to help you!

Joel was a Pastor in 1991 when he got into an affair. He then continued to?abuse Kathy with spiritual abuse, mental abuse, verbal abuse and emotional abuse. Joel’s infidelity and continuing abuse almost caused a divorce.

In 1994, Joel and Kathy attended a week of training at a center that was teaching couples how to minister to couples in severely abusive marriages Life Skills International with Dr. Paul Hegstrom.
There they learned that Joel was an abusive husband. Their marriage restoration began immediately. In 2004, after ten years of living an extraordinarily happy marriage, God led the Davisson’s to write The Man of Her Dreams/The Woman of His!

Now, through this marriage ministry, Joel and Kathy help couples with every type of marriage problems, such as: recovery from porn addiction, adultery, abuse and help for a myriad of other marital problems.

The Man of Her Dreams/The Woman of His Ministry includes marriage training opportunities and marriage support. This marital support includes marriage seminars, their signature Weekend Marriage Intensive, phone marriage counseling and personal marriage mentoring. The Weekend Marriage Intensive is a combination of marriage retreat, divorce prevention and a Marriage Workshop.

The Weekend Marriage Intensive Marriage Retreats conducted by Joel and Kathy have brought about remarriage after divorce, rekindling of romantic love, adultery recovery and recovery from every other kind of unfaithfulness in marriage.

Marriage coaching and couples coaching?is available for FREE on?Joel and Kathy’s?online marriage forum at

The marital advice, marital counseling, relationship advice and answers?for married couples problems that are found?in the marriage tools offered here?often bring immediate marriage recovery. This ministry is a marriage builder in every way. The marriage help that is available for marriage problems combines the best of relationship workshops, marriage enrichment and communication skills. Other Marriage Builder’s – such as Tom and Judy Shewmake, of Connecting Relationships, utilize the marriage training and marriage support that is offered by this marriage recovery and marriage restoration ministry. Professional marriage counselors also utilize the books in their marriage counseling practice.

Joel and Kathy’s entire ministry functions as a support group for husbands and wives. Husband and wife alike will want to utilize the relationship counseling and marriage support that is available to recover from severe to moderate relationship problems. If you are looking for divorce prevention, recovery from an extra-marital affair, or affairs, and have tired of traditional marriage advice; if you would like to rekindle the dream of love and romance in your marriage, if you would like to eliminate control and manipulation in your marriage, if you need to have restoration from a marital separation – and would like to experience a renewed love affair with your spouse; you have found the answers with Joel and Kathy’s marriage ministry!

Couples everywhere are enjoying love affairs again, with their marriage partner, after reading the 2 marriage books that are written by Joel and Kathy: The Man of Her Dreams/The Woman of His! and Book 2: Livin’ it and Lovin’ it!

The book(s) are endorsed by Charles and Frances Hunter, Billy Joe Daugherty, Richard Sigmund, author of A Place Called Heaven and many other counselors, Pastors and teachers. Preface written by Dr. Paul Hegstrom, founder of Life Skills International.
Instead of looking to divorce recovery – how about pursuing divorce prevention!

Instead of a private investigator, how about reading these marriage recovery books and learn how to restore intimacy in married life from people who have been where you are! We and many couples whom Joel and Kathy have helped are now experiencing an Outrageously Happy Marriage!

Be sure to go the web page that has over 500 testimonies from people who have attended a Weekend Marriage Intensive, Read the regular Testimony Page that has many testimonies from couples who have simply read the books and received a marriage miracle. Look at the Counseling Q & A page for answers that have been offered to other couples with marital problems just like yours! If you are a man who has lost your wife’s heart and need to restore the relationship, go the page that is For Men. You will find a lot of writing to real life men in your shoes – men who ended up winning their wife’s heart back. The links for these pages are at the top left of this page in the menu.

Your marriage can recover from any and every type of marriage problem. God’s way for marriage works! In a nutshell, “God’s Way” looks like this: Mutual Submission, Mutual Respect, Mutual Honor and Team Leadership in the home and marriage. God’s perfect plan is for you to experience an Outrageously Happy Marriage! Marriage is God’s best idea for us to experience happiness while on earth! Marriage IS meant to make you happy! The enemy has often thwarted God’s plan for marriage – but now you can redeem the time. Your evil days can be turned into glad days! You can be Outrageously Happily Married! You can have a MIRACLE in YOUR marriage! If Joel and Kathy can do it, SO CAN YOU!