Hi all, I just wanted to update with a praise. It’s been almost 10 months since we started on our journey with J&K. Mike used to be severely emotionally and verbally abusive to me. He would blow up disproportionately to what the situation called for on a regular basis. He...
Quote: Overall, this is a miracle. There is not one shred of doubt in my mind. I have seen God in one moment turn him around so dramatically I can hardly grasp it. He was not even like this while we courted. God has me in complete awe. It is...
Dear Joel and Kathy, We’ll be married 30 years on December 18. Unfortunately 27 of those years were spent in endurance mode with a contstant evil-for-evil relationship. Our daughter – Unreasonably Happy Wife – shares how it was so difficult that she was eager to leave home. Three years ago...
Dear Joel and Kathy We want to thank you for the blessing your books have been to our marriage. Your inspired message about how the husband is to love the bride as Christ loves us has impacted Ed dramatically. Since reading you books he has been applying the principles and...
Hello, I just wanted to say that I am doing a lot better! Am on your second book, called in more to the calls lately and even tonight my wife listened in on the call for her second time. God is doing such a work in my heart through the...
Hi Kathy and Joel, Just wanted to pass along a “good” piece of news for a change! He finally did it last night — WITHOUT MY REMINDER!!! For about the last three weeks, I have been talking to Dan about having that “talk” with at least the oldest of our...
Our marriage has continued to improve over the past 3 1/2 weeks. This is the longest things have gone without Paul creating some type of crisis. Up until this point his record was a week of good behavior. We believe that our miracle is finally here and that we are...
Dear Joel and Kathy, Since my last post things have been great. A few bumps here and there but we were able to get through it without dragging it out or causing more damage. It makes a world of difference now that my husband hears my heart and acknowledges the...
Hi Joel and Kathy, I want to share with you a situation that has come up with us. Joel, in your DVD seminar you told the men that if they are loving their wife and doing what they need to be doing for her and she has a situation that...
I have to say things have been good and challenging at the same time here. I see alot of genuine change. Yet when there are those times that my wounds are triggered, I can still feel the deepness of the pain and anger that still spills over. I can’t believe...